Review
The Story So Far
- Your refers to of as you go about life and deal with the adversity that is part of the human condition.
- The are rather simple and straightforward. They are accessible to each and all, regardless of a chosen or preferred .
- If accountability to yourself means anything, it is that your must answer to the expectations of this inner witness, your .
- You can reduce evil by realizing its origin in the egocentricity of your and your groups (especially larger social bodies).
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See this Matrix Summary of the
and read the review below. Links to revisit explanations are provided in the matrix only.
L | Primal Injunction | Core Expression | Oscillating Duality |
Oscillating Inquiry | Egotistic Repudiation | How it Goes Wrong |
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R"L7 | See Unity | Recognize everything connects. | Get a grip. | Discover unity amidst diversity. | Egocentric splitting with paranoid distortions of reality. | Avoidance of conflict, or denial of difference. |
R"L6 | Heed What's Right | Perceive and value what is right. | Pay attention. | Invent your duty. | Do whatever you can get away with. |
Moralizing and imposing, or following orders. |
R"L5 | Do Your Best | Put your heart into the task. | Get a grip. | Discover a suitable challenge. | Dehumanization of work, deterioration of the social milieu. | Becoming mediocre. Being lazy. |
R"L4 | Care About Others | Relate to others whoever they are. | Pay attention. | Invent an appropriate response. | Rudeness or indifference based on self-absorption or dissociation. | Intruding; interfering. Projecting personal needs. |
R"L3 | Become Aware | See beyond appearances. | Get a grip | Discover what you need to know. | Gullibility, recklessness, mindlessness. | Fishing without a specific focus. Falling into decision traps. |
R"L2 | Hold Ideals | Sustain conceptions of goodness. |
Pay attention | Invent your personal version. | Mediocrity, expedience, devitalization. | Do-goodism, PC. Confusing ideals with ideology. |
R"L1 | Get Enjoyment | Live positively. | Get a grip |
Discover what gratifies you. | Misery or boredom. Pessimism. | Over-indulging. Preferring excitement. |
Summary
All the
are, at least superficially, observable. However, even judging something as obvious as whether a person is may be difficult. Deceptive or fraudulent self-presentation is common. It is so common, and so necessary, that we can even deceive ourselves.As a result, it can be hard to know whether you, yourself, are adhering to one of the
; and it can be difficult to be sure about someone else. Over time, you should be able to get the measure of another person, and if you reflect and welcome feedback about your own behaviour, you should learn about yourself too.See Unity—R"L7
provides a continuous restraint on egocentricity. An emphasis on unity, integration and wholeness has numerous benefits: it sharpens observation of differences, fosters acceptance despite differences, and enables concern for the system as a whole. is used to avoid conflict, suppress dissent and deny differences. At the extreme, where the injunction is ignored or repudiated, there is a paranoid distortion of reality which tends to release hostility and harm.Heed What's right—R"L6
requires that you actively perceive, reflect and value what you conclude is right. It therefore provides for voluntary restraint in both everyday social situations, and also where obligations are conflicting or unclear or are being ignored by others. is used to moralize and impose on others (over-valuation of self), or if an appeal is made to «following orders» (denial of self). Repudiation shows up as an attitude of doing whatever you can get away with.Do Your Best—R"L5
requires that you put your heart into your tasks. That means taking pains and being dedicated in your endeavours, irrespective of your personal agenda. is used while disconnected from the context or any larger purpose. Prevention or suppression of creativity by mechanizing or dehumanizing work is profoundly harmful.Care About Others—R"L4
requires that you actually relate, at least in some minimal fashion, to everyone that you interact with. This means exhibiting politeness, cooperativeness, consideration and more (as appropriate) in any of your interactions. is used to intrude or interfere with others. The most extreme case is a persistent projection of personal needs on to another, so as to use them for personal gratification. Repudiation is about treating others instrumentally and indifferently. It often leads to rudeness and is based in narcissistic states like self-absorption, disconnection or dissociation.Become Aware—R"L3
requires that you see beyond appearances. While it is impossible to take everything into account, it helps you restrain impulsive responses, be more attentive and avoid decision-traps like over-confidence, anchoring, recency bias &c. Often it enables you to stop blinding yourself. is used for fishing about without any specific focus or goal. Repudiation leads to gullibility, recklessness or mindlessness and either acting stupidly on your own behalf or negligently in relation to others.Hold Ideals—R"L2
requires that you sustain chosen values and be willing and able to articulate them, at least to yourself. Values that you hold will automatically guide your approach to discussions and to those activities that will be fulfilling for you. is used to press an ideology, or as an excuse for «do-goodism» that ignores responsibilities and practicalities. In the absence of ideals, there will be mediocrity, poor quality, expedient solutions, and a general devitalization of activities.Get Enjoyment—R"L1
requires that you live positively i.e. as well as you can in the circumstances. What is enjoyable for you should feel natural and you may well differ greatly from others. is used for excessive self-indulgence or avoidance of responsibilities. Repudiation of enjoyment means tolerance of persistent misery or boredom, often with a loss of energy and motivation. It opens the door to a persistent negative mood and pessimism. Such a mood spreads and a killjoy can spoil the pleasure of others.- Having now got a fix on the nature of activating the better Self in everyday life. and the consequences of not obeying them, we can focus on
- Before that … visit humanity's codes for living .
Originally posted: 7-Dec-2012